unsoshabl

I was dealing with some depression and I seen a program where people that were depressed would write thier own obituary. This got me thinking.. so I asked my friends 3 questions and I have posted the replies here.

Question 1: If you were describing me to a person who doesnt know me, what would you say? Be brutally honest. I wanna know the good with the bad so I can try to be the best person I can. If we have had a relationship, sex, arguments etc, speak of them.

Question 2: If you have something you want to tell me, please do it now. Anything, just let it flow out.
Question 3: If I were to die for some odd reason, and you were asked to say something at my funeral, what would you say?

NOTE: I have filtered them slightly as I dont want thier Identities to be released.

1. If you have never met Chuck you are surely missing out. He is a great individual with a huge heart. He is the friend that everyone should have. He was a friend to me at a time when I wasn’t sure who I was but he helped me along the way. Chuck is a man with a profound soul. We would have conversations for hours about anything and everything. I loved it. He is honest when no one else will be, he will listen to what you have to say and be a shoulder to cry on. he always had a way of making me smile almost to the point that it was a game. :)

1. Chuck is a person who when you first meet him you may think he is kind of a dick. But he isn’t! He is actually a rather shy, quiet man with an incredible, gentle soul. If you give him a chance (which you defintiely should) and really get to know him you will see a very sweet, sensitive side, and a man with strong beliefs, true honesty, and so much love for his freinds and especially his children. He is very loyal, dependable and intelligent. He has a great sense of humor and is a wonderful person to have in your life and you will be a better person for knowing him. He can be sarcastic, but that is part of his charm. He ahs a hug that could melt an igloo!

2. I was a little intimidated by you when we first met especially coming to the realization that we had a mutual friend. But I liked you even though I did think you were kind of a jerk. However, in the wake of a tragedy, I had the chance to really get to see the beautiful person you were inside and out. And for that I will always be grateful.

3. Chuck was the sweetest most sensitive soul. His loyalty and his caring made this world a brighter place during the time that he was here and he will always be a bright spot in the hearts of those who were lucky enough to know him.

1. He’s a really caring guy with a huge heart. Truthfully cares for his friends, which is pretty rare these days. Willing to give his shirt off his back if you need it. Really nothing bad to say at all. About the only thing that could be remotely considered bad would be his big heart getting him in trouble with women, which is probably one of the reasons why we are such good friends, as I do the same thing with my heart.

3. Chuck was one of my best friends. He opened my eyes up to many things in this life that I would of otherwise never experienced. A lot of my best times in life happened when Chuck was by my side. He always stuck with me through thick and thin, when most of my other “friends” bailed. He was one of the most giving individuals I ever met. We both went through some rough times in our lives together, and I believe without him, I wouldn’t be here today. He was one of the only friends in my life, if not the only, who I could tell anything to. Chuck was a great listener and always tried to give the best advice he could. He counseled me through a lot, and would listen to me cry about anything at anytime. Not many people are fortunate enough to have a friend like Chuck was to me, and I am forever grateful that he was part of my life.

1. Well if I were to describe you to a person that doesn’t know you I would first of all let them know that you look like a person that would just intimidate you but at the same time when you talk you always are interesting in what you have you say because nobody I know thinks the way you do. You for sure are one of a kind, and I don’t know anyone like you. If we had a disagreement and we are not seeing eye to eye and you would speak your mind and not hold back from what you had to say, if they didn’t like what it was you said they would just have to get over it because you will not change your tune about something you believe in.

2. Well the only thing I would say to you is that; We had a tiff sometime ago and it is now over with and we are better friends because of it I think. You were there for me when I was going through a really rough time and I know I have thanked you before but I just wanted to do it again. Thank you for being there for me!

3. If the day comes that I’m asked to speak at your funeral I would say Chuck is a man that if you are lucky enough to meet this man that in some way or another he has touched your life and you are better person for knowing him. He was also a very blunt man what you see is what you get, if you don’t like what he had to say you shouldn’t have asked him. This world will not be the same without him!